So, on the weekend I had a bbq with some friends and after a night of drinking and fun, we finally got some down time. As I was talking with a guy friend who was recently married, the topic of guys came up. He said that guys need to be douche bags to get girls, because girls like douche bags. Now, being a girl, I wonder, SERIOUSLY?! Is that what guys think? Nice guys finish last?
Now, here is my opinion. I don't feel like guys are after the right girls. They want super skinny, perky, shapely and in some cases, wealthy females. Alot of guys want to woman who can support them. But then I ask myself, 'Don't guys know that we have standards too?'. Most girls aren't going to look for a guy who only wants her for her body and they sure as hell don't want to be with someone they have to support! I think in order to find someone you have to be picture perfect. This could very well be, because guys feel the need to be douchy and shallow. Therefore, everyone loses. The douchy guys can't find decent girls and girls with high standards can't find guys who aren't jerks. I am really confusing myself and possibly you guys too.
So, the question still remains, Do guys need to be douches to find girls out there? Do nice guys really finish last?
No comments:
Post a Comment